Men think they know all there is to know when dating women. Not all women are the same, and, indeed, Filipino women are significantly different.
You wouldn't jump out of a plane without at least putting in research and effort, would you?
Jumping into the world of Filipina dating requires knowledge, forethought, planning, and follow-through.
What are the steps you need to take for a successful partnership with a Filipino woman?
Define whether a partnership means a holiday girlfriend or a long term relationship. Holiday girlfriends are a casual partnership with younger, more adventurous Filipino women. A relationship with a Pinay girl requires discussion on future childbearing, financial aid, and home duties. In the Philippines, expect a relationship with a younger woman, at least 20 years your junior.
Finding a Pinay girl is easy. Finding the right girl for you takes time, understanding, and planning.
There are three broad categories of Filipino women.
The 18 - 25 age bracket is where many single guys target, at least at first. They 'think they want' a 'young, dumb and full of cum' Filipina who they can bang.
Young Filipino girls are inexperienced in many areas. These family-centric women are full of warmth and, generally, have a wide and varied base of friends. A bonus of their lack of relationship experience is they carry little emotional baggage.
Her many friends (and the influence of social media) makes a young Filipino woman adventurous; making her an excellent holiday girlfriend.
The chance to have an adventurous young sexual plaything sounds like every man's dream on the surface. She may be sexually inexperienced, despite her being highly sexual.
Remember, you're footing the bill for everything plus paying her for her time. Food, flights, travel tickets, accommodation, gifts, drinks for the two of you are your responsibility.
Young Filipino girls will likely be poor and have low education.
She'll know of foreign men from social media and girl-talk with her friends. The likelihood of personal contact with foreigners will be low unless she lives in one of the Philippines' cities.
And being family-centric, she'll look to you as a father figure and leader. Young Filipinas maintain strong family ties, so take care and treat her correctly.
Younger Pinay women can swing as a holiday girlfriend or travel companion or a short/long term girlfriend - she doesn't know what she wants yet.
Note: She'll want a strong father-figure if her father has already passed away.
Filipino women in the 25 - 45 age group are a mixed bag of tasty pleasures and added emotions. Women are complicated everywhere. You will find more complications in lower socio-economic countries.
You know already these sexually charged Pinay women are well experienced with men. Filipino girls have smoldering sexual energy, dating back to their Spanish-Latin heritage.
Their sexual prowess knows no bounds when the right guy crosses her path. Plus, they're easy to fall in love with, and they'll fall for you quickly. You only need to show a natural gentle kindness to Pinay, and you will get your rewards plus more - Filipinas genuinely take care of their men.
Middle-aged Philippines women are ideally looking for a stable long term partnership. They will entertain a casual meeting or a short term holiday girlfriend arrangement.
Filipino women love to cook. Filipino food is delicious, contains simple ingredients that combine into a wide variety of dishes. Their mothers have taught these women from a young age.
Finding a good job can be a challenge in the Philippines, so many Filipinos value a good education over other life goals. This age group of women has many college and university degrees and is in well-paid employment.
English has been a second language, in the Philippines, due to long-established American Armed Forces bases. Filipino women in this age group have had many years to refine their English skills, which are great for you and traveling with her.
A good education, English skills, a well-paid job goes together to mean middle-aged Filipino women are also social media savvy. These girls tune into fashion sense, the local food scene, and travel.
Many relationships come with emotional baggage. Women the world over are mistrusting of a man's true intentions.
Many local Philippines men mistreat their women. This abuse is common throughout South-East Asia. Women in the Philippines are always on the lookout for a better life change, but they will be carrying baggage that you must discover.
She knows what men want and will give up her gifts to you once you prove to her you're not some violent nutjob. Kind words and honest interaction via the website's messaging system will pave the way to her heart.
Note: If her father is no longer alive, she'll want you as a strong father-figure
Foreigners seek the 45+ age group of Filipino women for several reasons.
Local men believe these older Pinay ladies have passed their 'use-by' date since the local guys have a plethora of younger girls from which to choose. But these women have many hidden gems on offer for the discerning foreigners who are willing to explore further.
At the top of the list is her undying lust. Older Filipino women retain their sexual urges. They hunger for foreign action since their local chances low.
Older Filipino girls are highly appreciative of foreigners' attention since they're not getting any at home. Show them respect and your 'home and hosed'.
Like middle-aged girls, older Filipino women make excellent tour guides due to their broad experience and knowledge. They will know their way around the Philippines intimately. Plus, she will be eager to move to your country if the opportunity and your relationship head in this direction.
Most Filipinos desire to move out of the widespread poverty of their country. They love their country but realize better opportunities exist elsewhere.
The older a woman, the more shitty relationships she'll have encountered. Be aware these older Filipinas will have experienced their fair share of bad guys. Be on your guard for their emotional baggage and clear the way for yourself - if you are able.
Children are often a troublesome area when a single man is searching for a partner. The chances are high; any older Filipina will have children; since Filipinos are renowned for loving family life.
Remember, you don't need to fall for the first woman you chat online with - there are plenty of other girls without kids.
Take your time and choose wisely.
Never be afraid to admit that you want to first experience a Filipino holiday girlfriend before committing to something longer.
Most single foreigners start this way, and that's a good strategy.
Have you decided on your travel plans?
What are you expecting from the holiday girl? It would help if you were honest with yourself and her.
Take the deep plunge into a Filipino holiday girlfriend adventure like so many other single men have done before you.
To be honest, you can expect similar outcomes as a holiday girl when choosing a relationship.
All Filipino girls love sex, and they all love to travel since they don't get many opportunities to do so (due to the expense involved).
Family loving Filipino women take their relationships seriously. There is no reason to break their heart when you can plan to take on the right girl for you and your life.
Planning your Philippines goals gives you talking points with Pinay girls; they will understand you're serious about starting a relationship with the right woman, and they'll be more interested in you.
Relationships with the right woman take time and planning. Never jump too quick as this affects the rest of your life and has repercussions on others.
You can do the majority of your research through our online messaging systems; without having to give up your contact details.
Seriously think about online stalking if the Filipina starts hounding you at work, home, and Facebook.
Step wisely with your personal contact information.
No two people are alike. Every person has their likes, dislikes, and preferences.
There is a good rule of thumb where two people need to live together for at least 18 months before they both know they're a compatible couple.
Online dating isn't any sort of the dark ages or pre-arranged marriages. You have the freedom to define your set of rules. You are in charge of your destiny.
Take your time choosing several Filipinas who match your requirements for body features, age, sexual agreement, and location.
Choosing a holiday girlfriend or relationship is no easy task.
A good holiday Filipina woman should not have any children. You don't need her to be worrying about her kids' well-being. Her concerns will only interrupt your time together.
You want a girl who is youthful, energetic, and agreeable. The young or middle-aged girls fit this to a tee, but older women can be good. Younger is always better, though.
Any Filipino woman you choose as a holiday girlfriend will need the stamina to keep up through the day and sexual vitality for the evening/morning. Older women will be out of the question unless you think she's suitable 'wife material' for the future.
Traveling the Philippines means relaxation and adventure. A Filipino companion girl needs both those qualities for an enjoyable experience. Your initial online messaging needs to include questions on the adventurous behavior of potential Filipinas who interest you.
Forget what you think you know about women; the Philippines is different.
Filipinas are still females who biologically crave security, stability, and financial comfort. These reasons are why many Filipino women want foreign partners in their lives. So you only need to choose.
Are you looking to start a family and have children with a Pinay girl?
Choose a Filipina with the following qualities:-
Are you looking to retire in the Philippines and want a companion?
Older men prefer the Philippines as a retirement destination. The country offers low-cost affordable living, which gives retirement plans longevity.
Choosing a Filipino woman for your retirement requires planning:-
Cautionary Note #1: Take care of how young the Pinay girl is. Too young, and she will still have wandering eyes for men her own eyes. You don't need a sexy young girl walking into another men's bed.
Cautionary Note #2: Menopause is a natural part of a women's aging process. Are you about to choose a Filipino woman between 45 and 55 years old? Avoid mood swings and disruptive temperaments in a new relationship. Take care.
With the right degree of planning on your side, you will find the ideal Filipina girl. Decide what you want is the first step and is often overlooked by single men looking for a Filipina.
It is perfectly OK to want a Filipina holiday girl if this is what you choose. Let your hair down and take the plunge.
A relationship is a life-commitment and requires a rational, decisive plan. Filipino women make exceptional girlfriends and wives - when you choose wisely.
We hope you gain more insight into finding the best Pinay woman for your lifestyle and needs.
Author: Martin Cooney
Enjoying Life in Asia/Pacific
Hi, my name is Martin. I have many friends in and traveled throughout the Asia/Pacific regions for the past 17 years. I am passionate in helping others with my insight and past adventures.
I hope you enjoy the stories I write and take a little something away from them. I've contributed to over 160 posts on travel, dating, marriage and relationships.