Truth & Lies - Filipino Women Dating Foreigners
All relationships are a game of acceptable agendas.
Do both parties involved agree to the other person's terms?
With Philippines women, it isn't as easy as believing she wants 'true love.'
What are the agendas of real Filipino women for finding a foreign man on an online dating site?
The ten common reasons women in the Philippines turn to find a foreign man are:-
- Local Filipino men don't want her
- Her girlfriends also have a foreign partner
- She is looking to obtain a foreign visa or passport
- The Filipina wants a better lifestyle
- She believes a foreigner can bring her business success
- She requires more wealth to support her Filipino family
- The Filipina wants to be taken care of and dominated by a white foreign man
- The Filipino girl is only after money
- Desperation has driven the girl to date online
- Lastly, she is just filling in her time with idle online chatting
Don't believe everything women tell you.
Women will tell you they're looking for 'real love' or 'true love.'
Liking or loving a person comes with time, patience, and compromise. It's the intention behind the words that is the telling tale - a story you must uncover.
Failures With Local Filipino Men
Filipino men have a reputation for being tough on their Filipina girlfriends and wives, sometimes brutal.
You'll find many women from the Philippines use dating sites as an easy way to connect to foreigners - and try to find a man outside her local community or network.
Opposites attract, as the saying goes. With poor experiences with their local men, Filipinas will eventually turn their heads to a different concept.
You are better to confirm their reasons for seeking you. And ensure there's no emotional baggage.
Her Friends Have A Foreigner
You can't fault a Philippines girl for doing the same as her friends, can you?
We've written before why foreigners want a Filipina; however, the same applies equally to girls.
Visiting foreigners usually start as a casual holiday sex tourist. The women in the Philippines are renowned as sexual dynamos hence sex tourism.
And the women's prowess in the bedroom is like magnetism - men can't get enough and want to hold on to her pleasures as long as he can. Hence a majority of Western men eventually settle in the island haven of the Philippines.
These Western tourists bring a Pinay (and her family) an increased level of stability, financial independence, and a guy who doesn't have a heritage of beating up women.
Of course, the average Philippines woman would want the same joys as her girlfriend with a foreign man.
She Wants A Visa or Passport
There are disadvantages with a Filipino passport if the girl wants to travel or find work outside of South-East Asia.
For example, Filipina women can not travel to the USA easily unless they have a substantial amount of money (and proof). America is at the top of any Filipino's list of places to earn income. Still, few can get there.
Hooking up with an American man eases this pain and give the girl the incentive to marry him and immigrate to the US.
On the other hand, a Filipino passport is the better choice when traveling in and around Asian countries.
Are woman's motives only for your passport's country of origin? Is that acceptable to you?
A Better Lifestyle & Money Is A Good Thing
Money can indeed be the root of all evil.
Foreigners have an ill-conceived reputation as traveling 'sugar daddies,' at least with many Filipinas. Sugar Daddy is the latest catchphrase doing the rounds in the Philippines at the moment.
It seems like half the young Filipinas think every foreign guy is waiting on some 'young, dumb and full of cum' Philippines woman to look into his eyes. After which, he'll drop a load on pesos in her lap.
But this thinking doesn't stop with single Pinay girls either.
Many girls are pushed into this rort by their Filipino boyfriends. The latter are looking for easy and fast cash from unsuspecting tourists.
Ensure you check out every Filipina's education accomplishments, confirm her employment as best you can, and her financial stability.
Don't get straddled with her debts and, worse, those of her secret Filipino boyfriend.