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Philippine Women - Are They Worth The Effort?

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The Philippines is a wonderful and beautiful country and Philippine women are exactly the same.

You'll have many questions about Philippine women if you intend to visit, live, work or retire there.

Such as:

  • Is it true Philippine girls are only after my money?
  • Is the Philippines a safe place for dating?
  • Are online dating sites full of prostitutes?
  • What's the best way to map out my Philippines travel itinerary if I want to meet Philippine women?
  • Can I hook up for short-term relationships for sex only?
  • I want to find good honest Philippine women to take care of me. Is this possible?
  • Why do Philippine women have such a low standing in the western world?
  • Is retiring to the Philippines a good idea?

When I first visited the Philippines in 2010, it was as an aid worker to help the Philippines people recover from a natural disaster.

It was hard work. I fell in love with the Philippines and its' people from that moment on. I returned 6 months later for a 'discovery holiday'. To discover and learn more about Philippine women :)

Are Philippine Women All About Money?

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I’ve visited and traveled through the Philippines a number of times since then.

And also spent time with the number of lovely Philippine women.

Without doubt, the most common question I'm asked by my friends and family is whether or not Philippine women are totally obsessed by Western men with money.

Men are hunters and women are gatherers

I don't think Philippine women are any different to women in any other country.

Money represents security. Women of all nationalities want a stable and secure family unit. Philippine women are no different.

Personally, I think there's a stigma attached to Asian women and money.

The Philippines is a poor country. Most people live in relative poverty.

Naturally people in the Philippines see Western men as a potential ticket to freedom.

I've never ever given any of my western girlfriends money and I maintain that same rule of thumb with women in any of the other countries I have visited, including the Philippines.

Once you start down the road of buying gifts and giving money to anyone then I think you're on the path to disaster. The giving will never stop for you.

There are many otherwise to demonstrate foundation in a relationship. Women know they rule men with their pussy. Women of all ages know this.

Pinay girls know their physical attributes dominate a man's thinking. You owe it to yourself to donate in other ways. But don't become a chump by thinking a woman only wants your money either.

That is certainly not the case.

If you are with a girl that seems hellbent on parting you from your wallet then it's time to stop and find someone else.

Common sense dictates that if you're giving a woman money for sex then you are essentially with a prostitute.

If that suits you needs then fine.

But think about it seriously.

Philippine Women & Hooking Up

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The second question I get asked about the most is what Philippine women think about western guys and the online dating scene.

I'm in the fortunate position that I have developed good friendships with many Philippine women who are simply just friends, nothing sexual.

I mentioned earlier about Philippine women and money. And this comes into play with online dating sites as well.

Just because they live in another country and may have a lesser grasp of the English language doesn't mean they are dumb.

Far from it.

These girls have an end-game about security for themselves, as well as their family if they had some.

They are going to do the same as the guys are going to do.

They trawl through many guys on online dating sites.

They will have multiple conversations with western guys just as you should be doing with Philippine women.

That's simply the nature of online dating.

Now as I said, they aren't dumb.

There's many dating sites around and they are aware how to detect free members as opposed to guys that have paid a dating site for Pro Membership. They are looking for the signs that they going to meet a guy in the future who has an good heart as well is not being cheapskate.

In its basic form, the small price you pay for an upgraded online dating membership is simply the cost of doing business. For me personally, I have no hesitation in trading the cost of a lunch and beer to be able the message Philippine women when I want and as often as I want.

In my travels I've visited many countries. 20 or $30 for a few months dating membership isn't something of great importance.

It's a hassle to have to wait 10 or 15 minutes to message again, like on some sites.

Important Note: You Wait and You Lose

Girls are high high demand on dating sites - well, the cute and sexy Philippine girls are :)

I've tried the free option in the past. I've waited 15 minutes to message. I've done the Social Post to get another message.

But you know what? I've lost out many times.

Girls can be fickle. Girls get bored. Girls know you're a free member and likely to be a cheapskate.

The time to strike is already immediately and not after another guy has the girl interested - which means you miss out!

Every woman on every dating site knows when they are talking to a free member.

I asked my Filipino friends to confirm this.

And yes, they will happily talk to as many Western guys on dating sites. Every girl I spoke to confirmed this with me but they are also taking notes :)

Just as you should be keeping track of the girls you're talking to, they are also doing the same.

So if you want to waste your time and energy trying to look at ways to meet girls on dating websites on the cheap then go ahead.

For me and the smart guys, spending a few dollars and investing money in premium features and unlimited messaging is the smarter move.

Philippine Women and Agendas

Let's talk about your own motivation and agenda because that's really what dating in the Philippines is all about.

The reason why western men travel to the Philippines for female companionship can be broken down into some broad categories.

And they all include sex:

  • Looking for a wife there will be typically more subservient and docile and western women including sex.
  • Multiple girlfriends in many cities in the Philippines which obviously includes lots of sex.

So let's be honest, the main motivation you have in finding Philippine women is for fucking.

There are roughly 50 million Philippine women, many of whom are living in destitute times. Now imagine yourself in their position. You'll realise their main motivations in hooking up with western men are covered by the following broad categories:

  • Seeking a better life for themselves
  • Having the pleasure of eating three good meals a day
  • Having a life with clean drinking water and sanitation
  • Getting themselves a better education so they can find a decent and sustainable job
  • Not being beaten up and castaway by Philippine men

You see their agendas and motivations of vastly different to yours?

The great news for you is Philippine women love having sex. Yes, yes they do!

It's a win-win situation for you.

Philippine Women - the Good and the Bad

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Important Note: Scammers vs. Desperation

It's important to understand the distinction between a scam and just a desperate woman.

In my mind, scammers are like a room full of Nigerians masquerading themselves as Philippine women and trying solicit your money via a wire transfer.

At the other end of the scale are Philippine women who are desperate or destitute.

Don't confuse the two!

In any socio-economic climate of any country, there is going to be affluent people at one end of the scale and poor and destitute people at the other.

The majority of Philippine women that you'll meet both online and in your travels through the Philippines are going to be somewhere in the middle to lower ranges.

Many are going to have money issues.

One of the wonderful things with the people of the Philippines is their overall happiness. They are born into a lack of worldly possessions. But their culture and family bonds are areas setting themselves apart from the western world.

Important Note: Scam Protection

Before I found my home here at Pinay Romances dating site, I tried a few of the other dating websites dedicated today in the Philippines.

There are a few reasons why I moved away from them but the main one is the ever evolving scam protection techniques employed by Pinay Romances.

I was fortunate enough to actually meet the two guys behind Pinay Romances as well.

If you didn't know, they are two single guys who have designed and built the websites how they would wish dating sites to be built. They are actual users, just like you and me.

Scam protection is constantly on the top of their list which makes this website one of the safest ones I have yet to use.

I've often said to my friends who have travelled to the Philippines about the importance of keeping scorecards as well as a rating system on potential girlfriends.

When you're traveling as well as meeting multiple girls, you will quickly discover that keeping a record of important pieces of information can become a lifesaver.

I can't tell you the number of times I have arrived a few minutes early for my first date and then pulled out my smart phone to review what's been said between this girl and myself and had some serious moments of reflection.

Many times I've been under the impression I've been meeting another girl.

That's just another reason to use a website with a secret notes and ratings feature, like this one.

As you're chatting online it's easy to jot down small tidbits of information you can talk or ask about when you finally meet face-to-face.

Never neglect the importance of record-keeping - it'll save your bacon when you least expect it :)

Philippine Women - Short Term Sex

Women in the Philippines are the same as girls anywhere else in the World.

Fortunately for all you western guys, there are more women in the Philippines who are OK to experience a short-term sexual relationship.

That's why many guys frequently visit South-East Asia; and in particular, the Philippines.

Bear in mind, you do need to get a few things sorted out:

  • How long are you going to visit the Philippines?
  • How many casual encounters are you expecting?
  • Are you staying in the one place or travelling?

These few items can be a logistical nightmare.

Add to this, is that girls that do short-term sex are also in higher demand of companionship, by other western guys traveling at the Philippines. Yes, there are others like you :)

The Golden Rule:

  • you need an itinerary
  • firm bookings for each and every Philippine woman you've contacted in your chosen travel destinations.

You'll never ever accomplish all this once you land in the Philippines, to start looking around.

I had a few friends try this and they spent 95% of their time in the country interviewing prospective short-term sexual partners. Sadly, the sex they experienced was low.

Which is the reason I'm writing here to clue you into a winning formula.

I've traveled to and from the Philippines a number of times over the last 12 months.

Now I prepare a travel itinerary as well as a dating itinerary.

One of the best new features with Pinay Romances is their Ratings and Secret Notes features.

If you haven't had a chance to use them, I would suggest taking a serious look at the advantages of Ratings and Notes. You need to get organised.

It's easy to do.

As an example, I travelled to both Manila and Cebu, a few months ago.

My travel itinerary was an easy one to plan.

As for dating, doing a few searches for my age range and location pulled up the selection of girls that I needed to filter down for my preference.

So initially, for me anyway, it's a visual match and then I use the Star Ratings as my initial culling process.

From there comes the messaging to gauge whether the Philippine women that I'm interested in are also interested in meeting me.

Some quick light-hearted initial message conversation follows. This is important to make sure you're okay with what the woman is about. And certainly jot down relevant information in the Secret Notes area for review at a later time.

At this point for me it is all about filtering down to a smaller group of girls I want to meet in the locations I am traveling to.

At no point am I engaging in any external third-party messaging apps such as Skype or Viber. It's a waste of my time on girls that I don't want to meet - I don't know the ones I want meet just yet.

I change the rating down to a 1 Star for the girls I don't want to meet - this makes it easier for sorting at a later time.

Once you've used the system as I've described, and you're a frequent traveller, then scheduling up new girls with a firm booking takes only a few days and your experience with these girls in the Philippines will be much better.

Philippine Women and Retirement

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I'm nowhere near ready for much for retirement.

My Uncle Fabio retired five years ago to the Philippines.

That was one of the reasons the Philippines has always been on my travel list of countries to visit.

I'm glad I did.

Uncle Fabio retired to the Philippines before online dating. He did all his research in old school fashion.

What I can say is he is one lucky boy.

He is happily married to a Filipino woman 25 years his junior. They also have a gorgeous daughter.

I've visited them on many an occasion. His wife is genuinely 'over the moon' to have an older man in her life and to have a happy stable family life with him.

The older guys that are looking for younger Asian women and in particular Filipino girls then there is no other place to look than South-East Asia.

Philippine women come from a much poorer country. The majority of them are looking for a better life.

They look on all western men is almost their saviors. And an older western guy with a younger Filipino girl should treat her as a princess.

Where else in the world is an old western dude going to find young women genuinely wanting to be with them, both sexually and in a relationship?

It's the two way street though.

Like any short term or long term relationship, you get out what you put in.

Having a sexy young Filipino as your partner is a golden lifestyle for any red blooded male.

If you're over 50 and looking towards your own retirement then this is the place to look.

Join up on this website, have a look around at the girls you can potentially have and start your processes.

  • The cost to travel to the Philippines is small.
  • The cost of traveling within the Philippines is minor.
  • The cost of becoming a member of a dating site is trivial.
  • The cost of living in and raising a family in the Philippines is a fraction of what you're likely to spend in any 1st world country.

My Uncle is a testament to living a full and rich life in his 60s.

Remember, it's FREE TO JOIN so start today and enjoy life more.

Author: Mitch
Semi-retired sailor traveling South-East Asia

Enjoying Philippine Women and the delights of South-East Asia.

I like to write about my exploits and the mistakes and wins I make so you can learn from them.

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